“When you concentrate your energy purposely on the future possibility that you aspire to realize, your energy is passed on to it and makes it attracted to you with a force stronger than the one you directed towards it.”
~ Stephen Richards
My Primary Love Relationship
This question will mean different things to different people, so work this according to your circumstances. You may be in a relationship, and if so, use that relationship as the subject of your enquiry. You may be single and wanting to be in a relationship. You may be exiting or thinking about exiting a relationship. Your primary love relationship may be with God, or with yourself as a happily single person. The dearest person in your life may not be a romantic partner but a family member, friend or even an animal companion. Get clear first about your Primary Love Relationship situation and then continue with today’s exercise.
Here’s what you need to do:
Take your crystal, and complete this short guided meditation:
Hold your stone in your cupped hands, close your eyes, and slow your breathing. Bring white light into your body until you feel peaceful and calm. Then bring white light into the crystal too. Allow yourself to connect to the stone. You may feel it tingle, or visualise a colour in your mind’s eye. When you are ready, open your eyes. Keep your stone near you, and hold it when you write.
Now shuffle your cards, while silently asking the question to yourself ‘What do I most need to know about my primary love relationship?’
When you have shuffled the cards and they feel ‘done’, select one card using the method that feels right for you.
Place the card face up in front of you.
Clear your mind by closing your eyes and taking one deep breath in and then out. Open your eyes again. Take a minute and look at the picture.
What stands out for you today? Is it an image or a colour? Is it a number or a word? What are your first impressions? What thoughts come into your mind?
Write these down in your journal.
Now let’s go a little deeper. What feelings or words does this card evoke in your mind when you think about the card and its images in relation to the question ‘What do I most need to know about my primary love relationship?’ Take five minutes and write some stream-of-consciousness thoughts down. Don’t censor or judge them. Trust the process. Draw a second card for clarification if you need to.
Finally, read back over what you have written.
Hold some love energy in your heart today. Bless xx