“All that is gold does not glitter,
Not all those who wander are lost;
The old that is strong does not wither,
Deep roots are not reached by the frost.”
~ J.R.R. Tolkien, The Fellowship of the Ring
Hello Lovelies, and welcome to the fourth and final week of our Journal Challenge!
If you’ve only just found us now, it’s not too late to go back and start at the beginning. That’s the beauty of journalling. It waits for us, and works with our own time-frames.
This week we’re putting on our investigative hats, and we’re digging deep into what we’ve already written. There will be gold in those words, for sure!
You’ll need a couple of extra tools this week:
1. Some coloured pens
2. A few highlighters
Before we start our final week, let’s have a quick recap of the last three weeks of journalling:
1. In Week One we called on our own insights to discover where we have held ourselves back, what worries us, and what we might do to bring more balance, healing, sustainability and joy into our lives.
2. In Week Two we bravely called upon the love, wisdom and strength of our Ancestors as we tackled our patterns of resentment, the excuses we use that prevent us growing and moving forward, the areas and relationships where we hold resentment, and the things in our life over which we feel shame. We then looked at how to turn all of this hurt into wisdom, helping us to reclaim the aspects of ourselves that we had shunned.
3. In Week Three we looked at endings and beginnings. Places where we could complete, finalise or sever. Places where we could launch, start and create new energy and momentum. We began to embrace possibility.
This week it’s all about refining our ideas, reviewing our material and coming up with a map to our riches.
Choosing a Crystal
You may wish to choose a crystal to work with for our final week. It is entirely optional, and you’d be fine without one too – but for my fellow rock lovers, read on…
You can hold this crystal as you write or meditate, place it under your pillow or beside your bed while you sleep, or carry it in your pocket to help you stay focused.
You could choose your stone based on what most appeals to you. That’s a very valid approach. But if you need a little direction, good crystals to work with this week include:
- Any of the Calcites
- Rose Quartz
- Clear Quartz, with or without inclusions
- Smoky Quartz
This week I’ve chosen a natural Amethyst point – I love the gentle energy of this one, and when I gaze into it I am reminded of clouds of jellyfish upon a purple ocean!
If you’re working with a crystal too why not tell us about it by leaving a comment below or over at our facebook page.
Week Four Meditation:
This week’s simple meditation is about reassuring ourselves. We don’t do that enough, and it’s an important part of nurturing and caring for ourselves.
The Healing Breath Meditation
You can do this meditation anywhere, anytime. That is the beauty of it.
Sit or lie quietly somewhere. You can close your eyes or leave them open – whatever feels right for you in the moment.
Breathe in. As you breathe in affirm to yourself, “I am Love.”
Breathe out. As you breathe out affirm to yourself, “I am Enough.”
It may bring up strong emotions for you, when you first do this meditation. That’s okay. Gently stick with it.
You only need a minute or two, but if it feels right you can happily sit in this meditation for longer.
When you feel calm and stronger in yourself, smile, and remind yourself that you are okay.
Now you’re ready to write!
Take your journal and some highlighters and sit down with a tasty beverage. Somewhere quiet where you won’t be disturbed. If you’re using a crystal, hold it in your non-writing hand, or place it in your lap or pocket.
Start reading. Read in a way where you are allowing yourself to skim lightly over the words. When something gets your attention, mark it with a highlighter.
What should you highlight? Anything that brings up strong emotion (including negative emotion), recurrent themes, or ideas or actions that begin to make you feel purposeful or alive.
It’s a little like panning for gold, searching for those valuable nuggets amid the stones and gravel.
Gathering the Threads Together
Over the next few days, or the next few weeks, return to those highlighted sections. Read over them, one by one, and then for each one allow yourself to ask the question:
What can I do about this?
Write the answer in your journal.
It can also be useful to do some word association. Find the one word, idea or image from the highlighted text that stands out for you. Place that word in a circle and then draw a few lines out from the circle. My word was ‘time’.
Now without giving this ANY thought (Don’t you DARE think!), use ‘stream of consciousness’ and immediately write connected words that you associate with time, or whatever your particular thing is, coming off each of the lines. NO THINKING – JUST WRITE!
My words in relation to time were Slow Down, Make a list, Go off the clock, Prioritise, Sleep, Fun, Delegate, Stop Worrying, Holiday. I actually found that pretty useful, and it immediately pulled me out of stress and back into flow and possibility.
Because of this, I’m seriously considering taking a chunk of time in the new year just to write, create, rest and heal.
We have so much wisdom within us, if only we ever think to ask 🙂
Let your journalling evolve into a space of mapping possible solutions, answers, outcomes or adventures.
Trust the process. Be an explorer in your own life, your own mind, your own subconscious.
Use this new clarity to begin to put a plan together for the year ahead. This way you’ll begin 2015 with a clearer idea of what you want to move away from, and what you want to move towards.
It’s your life, and you’re the Captain of your own ship. It’s time to plot a course through life that works for you. Bless xx