Sitting In The Forest Saying Sorry

I think of what wild animals are in our imaginations. And how they are disappearing — not just from the wild, but from people’s everyday lives, replaced by images of themselves in print and on screen. The rarer they get, the fewer meanings animals can have. Eventually rarity is all they are made of. The condor is an icon of extinction. There’s little else to it now but being the last of its kind. And in this lies the diminution of the world. How can you love something, how can you fight to protect it, if all it means is loss?

Helen Macdonald

I sat in the forest yesterday, lovelies.

I sat in the forest and I cried.

I cried because I was tired.

I cried because right now I am surrounded by so many deaths and end-of-life situations for my friends and community.

I cried because the last male northern white rhino died, rendering his species functionally extinct. There are just two females left alive in captivity.

I cried because of a developer cutting down a swathe of gigantic old habitat trees that will take a lifetime to replace.

I cried because there is plastic in the water we drink, and chemicals in the babies we birth, and where I used to travel across a bay through packs of sea turtles and clouds of fish, the oceans are quiet, and where I used to travel through country miles and flocks of thousands of finches or budgerigars, the grass is empty.

I wept for the earth and all I could say, over and over, was Sorry.

After a while I felt my friend’s mum with me. Leanna passed some time ago, but she was always like a mother to my sister and me. She was a kind, wise, funny and practical First Nations woman. I loved her dearly. Girly, stop your crying, I heard her say. You’re a smart girl. Figure something out. Write about it. But rest first, hey?

So, today, I’ll rest.

And then I’ll figure something out.

Flap of wing, rustle of leaves and arc of rainbow, Nicole xx

Hi! I'm Nicole Cody. I am a writer, psychic, metaphysical teacher and organic farmer. I love to read, cook, walk on the beach, dance in the rain and grow things. Sometimes, to entertain my cows, I dance in my gumboots. Gumboot dancing is very under-rated.
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5 thoughts on “Sitting In The Forest Saying Sorry

  1. I get so much personal growth from your blogs,groups and writings. Much thought and reflection on my life and wider subjects.
    Thank you for your bravery on a public forum.

  2. As a child I was overwhelmed by the sadness of the world. I could not allow myself to think about it or I would not survive. I learnt methods to block it out. As a 57 y o woman I still need to protect myself from this pain. I am sorry.

  3. Somehow, it’s helpful to sit in our shared grief and pain together. Thank you for writing about this, as heavy as it is. Sometimes I’m paralysed by this sadness, and that makes me even sadder (because then I can do nothing). That you are writing about this makes me ever more hopeful. x

  4. It is so overwhelming what’s happening with our earth. But the more we write/speak/draw attention to it – the more will happen. Energy flows where attention goes.
    Thank you for being you and making sure these things are on our radar.
    PS – I can’t wait to read your book about your Aunties in the Kimberly.

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