Things Not To Get Me For Christmas

“We no longer live life. We consume it.”
~ Vicki Robin

 

When I was a kid, Christmas was something to look forward to. We’d get a new toy or two, maybe a book (mine was always books), a dress or a t-shirt, socks and undies. The toys would last us for the year, the clothes made up a necessary part of our wardrobe.

The food at the table was a treat. Soft-drink. The drink for special occasions, like Christmas. Lollies and candies and chocolate. All sorts of things we didn’t see much of during the year. It was special and lovely, and much anticipated.

The rest of the year had birthdays and Easter. That was about it for special. That was about it for treats. And that was okay.

Now I live a life where I can have anything I want, whenever I want it. There isn’t much reserved for treats. I have a life filled with stuff. And it’s likely that so do you. So you may be thinking you’ll have to find something I don’t have. Or something cute and irresistible. Something to make me laugh. Something to fill that minute after the wrapping is torn off with appreciation or even ironic horror .

Before your gift gets set to one side, or stuffed in the back of a cupboard, or relegated to a pile to be re-gifted later. Or worse. Binned.

So here’s my list of gifts I’d rather not have:

  1. No inflatable novelty items for the pool. The ones that hold beer cans or a book or a radio. Or inflatable tennis rackets or giant dolphins or funky big ‘thumbs ups’. It’s fine. I have a towel. I have a floaty thing. There’s only one of me.
  2. No battery-operated (or even solar) Grannies on Zimmerframes games. Racing Grannies? Who knew?

    Image from www.red5.co.uk

    Image from www.red5.co.uk

  3. No glow-in-the-dark lightsticks to hang around my neck at concerts.
  4. No executive games or Startrek snow globes or other objects to place on my desk. (Actually, I lied about the Startrek snow globe. That would be cool.)
  5. No cheap plastic jewellery or novelty items from the local $5 store. We both know it will break on first go. It was only ever going to be destined for landfill. But it got you out of a present for under five bucks. Well done.
  6. No dancing robots.
  7. No strange but potentially useful kitchen gadgets that you’re sure I won’t have. You’re right. I don’t. For a reason.
  8. No USB-powered fake fish aquariums to keep me tranquil while I work.

    Image from alibaba.com

    Image from alibaba.com

  9. No cheap gift sets of anything cheap, because it was cheap.
  10. No cute puppies or kittens or pet rats. Especially the un-neutered kind. Seriously, do you know how many dumped unwanted pets we see around our farm by Easter?

I could go on. But I won’t. Our planet is struggling because of our consumerism. All of the resources used to make, ship and then wrap the unwanted gift are part of that problem.

A kind thought, a donation to a charity, a newsy letter with updated pics of you and your family, a warm smile and a hug, or a tasty treat are the gifts I’d most value. Home-made food? Thank you! A plant, or produce from your garden? How lovely!

Time with me, a cup of tea, and a proper conversation with a few laughs or a few honest tears from heart-to-heart sharing? A couple of drinks and a barbeque? Best of all.

I have enough stuff. I’d rather have you. Time with you. Connection with you. Put a little food or a beverage into the mix and I’m in heaven.

Please, before you go last-minute gift buying, ask yourself if there is a better gift you could give. One that won’t go to waste. One that won’t harm our planet or perpetuate the factory-farming and dumping of animals.

Thank you.

 

8 thoughts on “Things Not To Get Me For Christmas

  1. Love this and how I give with produce off our small farm or homemade ❤ celebration meals all produce must be grown by us a great challenge Much Love this holiday season x

  2. Well said Nicole…for too many years I have said those things…This consumeristic world has for a long time been a trouble to my mind. A quiet drink with loved ones whilst watching the setting sun is the best gift for me. Blessings to you and yours and thank you for all the wisdom and love you share with so many. You are amazing.

  3. Christmas has been and gone and I’ve just read your post. I’m with you Nicole, time spent with another is so much more valuable. Adopting this policy we let ourselves off the hook too, reduce stress and actually connect. My son was concerned he did not know what to get me for Christmas. He felt bad that he hadn’t ‘bought me enough’. I received a lovely adult colouring book and we had 6 amazing days together. Just he and I. We hiked in the bush, moseyed about antique stores, drank tea, went on a road trip (two actually). I couldn’t have wanted more. I have been filled up by our time together, something no gift can ever do.

    Your message is a good one to remember for the year with the myriad of celebrations and birthdays we will encounter. Have an exuberant year!

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