The Week Ahead – Oracle Reading for Monday 19 September 2016

never ending story colette baron reid

“Stay out of the court of self-judgment, for there is no presumption of innocence.”
~ Robert Brault

 

Hello Lovelies,

Here’s this week’s oracle card and my take on the energetic outlook for the days ahead.

‘Never-ending Story’, from Colette Baron-Reid’s Wisdom of the Oracle deck is the card I have chosen for this week.

Do you remember what I said about the energies of September, earlier this month? Let me refresh your memories:

This month we see things from a higher perspective. Old relationships, trials, failures and obstacles lose their sting, and we see how many of these things have helped us to become who we are and to develop a depth and wisdom we would not otherwise have had.

We can put down the guilt or resentment.

We start to see the learnings instead of just the pain.

Our energy can flow again after all of that stuckness.

 

So, in the week ahead, we are being energetically supported to act upon this. Among other things, we are being asked to become deeply aware of our own voice in our heads.

How do we speak to ourselves? Is it from a place of meanness and judgement? Are we endlessly critical or complaining? Are we stuck in our story – and does that story harm us and hold us back?

Many of our limitations arise from this faulty thinking that makes us and our capabilities diminished in our own eyes.

This week, a little awareness can go a long way. When we find ourselves listening to a negative inner voice, we can consciously choose to think differently:

  • I can choose this
  • I can learn to do that
  • I can do this
  • I can ask for help
  • I can choose something different
  • I am changing
  • I’ve got this
  • I’m doing better
  • Things can be different
  • Things are changing for me
  • I’ll find another way
  • I’ll find someone to help me
  • Something wonderful will happen to me today (one of my all-time favourite mantras)

Often we tell a story about our limitations or stay stuck in a pity-party long after an event or relationship has passed our horizon. Where can you lighten your load this week by letting go of that tired old news?

When we stop telling the old stories, we create space for a new story to take shape.

Don’t have a new story yet? Take time for dreaming, imagining and goal setting. Making a dream board this week is an excellent activity too, which is bound to fire up new ideas and possibilities for you to aim for. (instructions below)

Make time for your dreams – even fifteen minutes a day, or a couple of hours one night or on the weekend can get you heading in the right direction, and feeling less frustrated and resentful with yourself or the world.

Dream Board/ Vision Board
A Dream Board or Vision Board is a visual representation for your dream home, life, career or whatever else makes you tick. Start by getting a whole pile of magazines.  (You can often get them from newsagents for free with the covers ripped off if you let them know you are using them for an art project.)
Without thinking about it too much, flick through the magazines and pull out the pictures that appeal to you. If words ‘jump out’ at you and make you feel good, cut those out too!
I had a client once who thought she wanted to live on a farm, but she’d never been able to manifest one.  When she did this activity every picture she pulled out was of a waterfront apartment surrounded by boats and restaurants and high end shops.  Guess where she lives now?
When you’re done cut your pictures out and glue them to a large sheet of cardboard, or peg them to a corkboard and place it somewhere where you can see it. Look at it often, to remind yourself what the elements of your new story are, and how you want to shape your life.
Relationship Stories
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Image from Aymen256 at www.fivesquid.com

It’s also a week for examining the relationships around us.

We often get into the habit of living from a story, rather than being in the moment in our relationships. We think in generalisations or judgements, which frame our thoughts and actions before we even begin an interaction with the other person:

He’s never going to go for that. My brother thinks I’m stupid. My mother-in-law hates me. She’s the boss’s favourite, not me. None of them like me. She’s so stuck up.

This week, how about starting over in your challenging relationships? Allow that just as you can change, so can the other person, and in fact they may already have changed but you are still stuck in the old story.

Approach your relationship with the other person as though they have changed, and things are different between you. Treat them as though things are already good. Look for a positive story between you, no matter how small a step you take. Look for positive things about the other person, as well as about yourself. Speak these positive things where you can. Practice kindness. Acknowledge the good and the talent in others. I have seen this technique bring about huge changes in families and love relationships over time. It may well take patience, but the rewards will be worth it.

You’ll also soon see where you efforts are wasted and it would be better to step back or minimise contact with people who put you down and judge you harshly. If they stay stuck in their story, that’s their problem, not yours.

 

If you need a little encouragement this week, I think the words of Max Erhmann’s great poem Desiderata may speak to you…

 

Thinking of you, and sending all my love and encouragement for a week of kindness towards yourself and others, and for emerging possibilities and healing,

Nicole ❤ xoxo

PS: I’m through all my surgery now, and am healing well. I’ve had a slight complication with infection – having picked up a nasty superbug along the way – but I’m being well taken care of, getting lots of rest, and there is ample time for meditation, thinking about my memoir and dreaming a little of how good life will be once I’m up and about again. Thanks so much for all the birthday wishes and well wishes and healing energy sent my way. You’ve really lifted me up and through some very tough days, my friends, and I thank you with all my heart.

4 thoughts on “The Week Ahead – Oracle Reading for Monday 19 September 2016

  1. Glad to hear you’re continuing to heal Nic, and being well looked after ❤ xox

    Your message this week hold's so much wisdom and inspiration for me in the way your words invite us to move forward whilst acknowledging the major contribution of those past lessons, no matter how painful

    Dream boards really are a great suggestion for helping to create those new stories that we all need. Wanting to manifest my life in the country, last year I drove to the actual area to take photos for the board I was creating, and like your friend discovered that the coast is still actually where I want to be. Moving to my chosen location is a work in progress 🙂

    My 18-year old self had a beautifully illustrated copy of the Desiderata on her bedroom wall, and seeing the way it has been presented here in the video today has given me an idea for my OBT. Yay!

  2. The BEST news is that you’re healing and being in good hands.

    Thank you, as always for your amazing post. Nothing holds you down or back!

    Sending love, my warrior princess.

    xoxoxo

  3. Hello Nicole, You have been so on my mind. I have been praying for you and miss your blog and your written words. You are such an inspiration to me. I know you suffer so much yet you still move forward daily. So I hope and pray the silence is just you mending. Do you know how to balance your Liver meridian? If not you can flush Liver by going backwards once and forward 3x. Your hubby can trace it for you if you are not able to do that. Also I know you take herbs but I do know of an amazing herb person who lives in Australia. I know it is a very big place but if it is too be she will be close by. Sending healing light and love your way and just a note to let you know you are missed. Marian

    On Sun, Sep 18, 2016 at 4:01 PM, Cauldrons and Cupcakes wrote:

    > Cauldrons and Cupcakes posted: ” “Stay out of the court of self-judgment, > for there is no presumption of innocence.” ~ Robert Brault Hello > Lovelies, Here’s this week’s oracle card and my take on the energetic > outlook for the days ahead. ‘Never-ending Story’, from Cole” >

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