“I learned a lesson I’d never forget. The lesson was that, when you have setbacks and failures, you can’t overreact to them.”
~ Angela Duckworth
I’m off to the doctor today. And tomorrow. And Monday. And more after that.
Many different specialists, all with their own opinions.
I know I’m not going to like some of what I hear.
Lyme doctors. Urologists. Immunologists. Opthamologists. Gynecologists.
So, why am I telling you this?
Because, you might not be facing medical challenges but your situation may be similar to mine. You might be living a total crapfest right now. Maybe yours is bad news. Poor results. No support. No money. Failure. Experts telling you it can’t be done. Well-meaning friends and family giving you sympathy and telling you to become resigned to your circumstances.
Don’t believe them.
Dig hard til you find your own truth. Your own strength. Your own answers. Know that it is never over until you reach the end.
Keep walking your road, or find a new road. Rest if you must. But most importantly, hold a vision of what you want in your heart and use your grit to push your way through to a better outcome.
How do you find your grit? Dig your toes in. Push against your circumstances. Keep pushing. Even as you cry and sigh and wonder what the heck you’re doing. Keep looking for answers. For better ways. For alternatives. For new perspectives. Trust that help will come.
Don’t give up on yourself.
Don’t give up on your dreams.
Don’t take it personally if not a single person stands shoulder to shoulder with you right now.
Just keep going.
Because most often that’s how miracles happen. That’s how dreams come true. That’s how everything transforms. That’s how you find the strength to change what can be changed and the grace to accept what will be.
I believe in you. I know that grit and strength is in you. Dig deeper. You’ll find it. And it will transform you when you do.
Sending you so much love and encouragement, Nicole