“Are you okay?” ~ Popular movement
This morning in my meditation (and I always include you in my morning meditation) I felt the loneliness some of you feel, and your yearning to have someone to connect with.
So, today I’ve made a pot of tea, and gathered some tasty treats and put a table for us out under the jacaranda tree.
Come sit with me a while, and tell me all about your week. Tell me your troubles. Tell me your hopes and dreams. Tell me about your success and your failures. Let’s laugh a little and maybe even cry a little.
That’s what friends are for.
Today I’m checking in on you, to ask if you’re okay and to see what’s going on in your life.
You’re always in my thoughts. I believe in you and your dreams. You can do this, and get through this. I love you, hang in there, Nicole ❤ xx
29 thoughts on “Checking In On You”
Oh Nicole, what a beautiful invitation. I would love to sit with you under your tree, drink tea, talk, laugh and cry. Your thoughts warm my heart.
Thank you for a very sweet and loving post. I’m okay and I hope that you’re okay too!
Still living with daily head aches life gets tough sometimes and I feel like I’m isolating myself I haven’t been in tough because I just got caught up in my own pain. I’m ready to try and live again. Your site has been a good friend to me I guess I just shut down for awhile which is not a healthy thing to do but some days I just feel like giving up.
Thank you Nicole! A wonderful boon and balm for me to read your words and connect with your spirit of empathy and kindness. It is a reminder that we are all on the same path…together we are stronger.
Thank you Nicole!
No, I’m not ok. My family has fallen apart, husband has no income, I am lost. Can’t stand the pain any more. Thanks for asking, I hope you are ok and well.
Good morning Nicole. It is so nice of you to ask!
You are right, I feel lonely and disconnected and that for a long time now. And I feel a strong urge to live another life but I don´t know how. I feel that what I am living now is not what I am destined to be. What I don´t know is this: what am I destined to be? And there are so many fears and insecurities, so much shame and self-doubts holding me back. I´m stuck, I know it. What I don´t know is how to get out of it. You see, my problem is ” I don´t know” in many aspects.
On march 3rd. is my birthday. I will turn 38 and probably it will not be a happy day for me. I feel I have wasted my life until now. Most of my life I was hiding myself in one way or another. Always wanting to please others. I really don´t want to live this way any longer. Only there is this sly little voice inside me, who is whispering ” you are not good enough, you can´t do it, …”. I don´t believe in myself and I don´t know myself. At the age of 38, how sad is that? I really don´t love myself much right now. And here in Germany we are having such an ugly winter. Almost no sun for the last three month. Makes me a little depressed, I think.
Thanks for listening and a good day to you
Thank you.💝 have been struggling with a rough comment I got on my pups behaviour issues. Which basicslly translated to it simply being my own fault he is like that. Me dumping my own shit on him. That felt rather lonely. Thinking of you, in bed, sending love and energy, thinking of Sokli and feeling the warmth and compassion and strength and encouragement. Bless you. Hope you feel better soon. Much love.
Thank you I am okay now that we had that cuppa a chat and laugh…❤❤❤
Still working full time and feeling so very tired! The Jacaranda tree in our garden was a 5th birthday present, so that makes it about 56 years in age.
Thinking of you too. Hope all is well. Not often do people think in the opposite direction.
Hi, Nicole. How sweet of you to want to know how we all are. I am dealing with the fact that my dear Labradoodle, Tavi, has a malignant tumor and I am trying to see if there are any alternative therapies that might be able to heal it. Most everybody thinks I should just euthanize him, but I just don’t know if I can do it. The vet I saw said it can’t be removed because that would spread the cancer cells through his body. But I don’t want to give up because although he’s nearly ten he’s in good health otherwise and doesn’t seem to be suffering much pain except when he tries to sit because it’s on his rear end. So that’s been my situation for the last week and a half. Boo! I don’t like it!
Thank you Nicole. I am feeling great at the mo (just a little tired) I love that you think of us and our well being.
I gladly join you for a cuppa and a slice of cake.
Love and hugs
Thank you – needed that and blessings to you and yours too
thankyou Nicole, so lovely to read this. You are an amazing soul.xx
Thank you. I have been single for to long. Miss loving connection.
Thank you for this, brought me comfort at just the right time
Thank you so much Nicole. I know I am not commenting often or writing anymore, but I feel as if you wrote this post just for me. Thank you so much. Love you
This morning I felt like writing an email to women I know telling them that I feel lonely and would you please include me whenever you plan an outing. You see, I am the one who always plans outings and it is the way I get to do things, but I do not get invited when other women plan an activity.
I’ll pop over at about 10 !😆
Thank you for that <3 I have been feeling drained and listless as of late. Having a time concentrating- which is a bad thing as I am a full time student at university amongst my other hats. Looking at a big move coming up, my fiance has been ill for a length of time, and my mother is in the last stages of her Parkinson's. So a lot on my plate right now. I am currently going through my awakening as well and multiple issues have come top light that I am working to heal and release. I do feel very lonely where I am right now- like a lone journey through a desert- not knowing when I will come out into the oasis on the other end. I am actually just sitting down myself with a cup of coffee trying to gather my energy and thoughts to continue with my assignments. Much love to you and thank you again for your love and light!
Thank you Nicole
I love your nurturing kindness🙏❤️
Thank you for asking. Not too good here. Divorce after 25 years almost final, even though hub wants to be married yet still have other relationships, “no responsibility” he says, just wants to come around and hang out even though he cheated and abandoned me and our family. Hard to stay a lightworker surrounded by such darkness, a real dark triad malignant narcissist with a secret life I never knew about. Sometimes I feel so alone.
Thank you for including me, my life is often busy and a tad crazy and I have lots of worries
Thanks Nicole. Cuppa and a chat sounds wonderful. In a sad and lost point at the moment. Just holding my head up seems too hard. I’m sure a cuppa will help.
Thanks Nicole. Perfect timing, am at a low ebb. xx
Hi Nicole. Thanks for your support. I am feeling drained. Looking after family, health and work is such a balancing act. I would love a holiday right now! Lots of love, Rita
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