Doing The Scary Thing Is Good For Us!



“There is no illusion greater than fear.”
~ Lao Tzu


I did the scary thing last night.

In front of quite a large group of people I sat in trance and brought my Guides through so that they could address the group directly.

I wasn’t sure how it would go. I wasn’t sure if anyone would even want to come. But I decided to be brave and put it out there and then see what happened.


I’m no stranger to channelling. I’ve been doing this for almost thirty years. I teach it. I spend hours in this state every week.

But still…

I always have a dialogue in my head before I begin.

What if nothing comes through?

What if I make a fool of myself?

What if personal things about me end up being disclosed that I may not have wanted known?

What f I stuff it up?

You’d think that after all this time those voices would be quiet by now, but no. I have learned to let the dialogue happen, and to ignore it at the same time.


Last night I channelled in front of a group and something wonderful happened. Like it always does, every time I channel in front of a group. People in the audience heard messages just for them. My Guides were able to speak and get their messages out in ways that truly helped other people. My audience had a good time. They found some things out about themselves that will help them to continue on their own path.

Yes, Sokli managed to find a way to talk about poo. Yes, Rollo was his usual cheeky self and said things that would have made me blush and disclosed personal stories about me. It was still okay. It was okay because it was real, and I was able to be vulnerable and to trust this big group to be gentle with me in my vulnerability – and they were.

Thank you to everyone who came last night! It was a terrific evening, and I’m looking forward to having more evening channelling sessions next year.


What are you holding back because of fear? What do you fear to put forward, in case it doesn’t work, or you are judged for it, or _________________ (insert your own list of fears and worries)

Until mid December we have this wonderful opportunity to plant seeds of goals and dreams for the future by taking some small action step towards that thing now.

What could you do to take you closer to your dream? To take you closer to living a more authentic and satisfying life?

Take that tiny step. I promise it will be worth it.

Holding space for you to be all you came here to be,

Nicole <3 xoxo

Hi! I'm Nicole Cody. I am a writer, psychic, metaphysical teacher and organic farmer. I love to read, cook, walk on the beach, dance in the rain and grow things. Sometimes, to entertain my cows, I dance in my gumboots. Gumboot dancing is very under-rated.
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10 thoughts on “Doing The Scary Thing Is Good For Us!

  1. Was so wonderful to see you in person and give you a great big hug!!!! I enjoyed the night immensely, thank you so much for being you Nicole. You are truly wonderful and inspirational 💜🙏🏻

  2. That sounds great! I wish I’d been there. Nicole: I started on the 1st of November telling my husband what you wrote about it and it has been exactly like that. Breakthroughs, new ideas, new enegies,… and all that’s still to come 🙂 Thank you!

  3. How interesting . I am FULL to brimming of insecurities I desperately want to PUFF them away like magic .
    I think what you did last night was so brave lovely Nicole Cherryx

  4. It was a wonderful evening, Nicole, so thank you once again. Sokli and Rollo were entertaining, as usual, as they brought us their wise messages, but I loved the profound energy of Zillith’s (spelling ???) wisdom. I hope we get to meet her again. Enjoy the rest of your weekend, dear lady <3 <3 🙂 xx

  5. Thank you so much for a wonderful experience last night and for letting your wonderful companions share their messages with us. It was inspiring and entertaining, you gotta love Sokli and her enchanting way of getting her message accros… Big love and lots of wellness to you, beautiful soul.

  6. Sorry i couldn’t make it last night to experience it all with you. I have had the most amazing GESHIDOMO however. Thank you so much for this guidance. My life has taken a monumental leap forward. I lay in bed this morning at 3am just letting be my thoughts of endless possibilities and living a life I once thought out of my reach when a thought popped in my head “Like the underground dragon”. Not sure what it meant but it sounded exciting. After this month anything is possible even underground dragons!Thank you xx

  7. You were very brave and it was wonderful – thank you for facing your fears and bringing through those very important messages. Life changing! (And you should also know that you/they were very entertaining!) Thank you beautiful! xxx

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