Like you, I’ve known hard days. For a while I even had a run of days that piled up into years. Poor health, awful health, nearly deadness, and then the fallout of the mess that is created from a person incapable of functioning. It doesn’t matter what the reason for the non-functioning is – what matters is that place you are in where you can’t seem to drag yourself out of misery.
So what to do when you find yourself in that dark place?
I found one thing that worked for me, and I absolutely believe it will work for you. It’s so simple that it may sound trite. But there is a power to this act that can transform lives.
Embrace the Small Things
Shift your focus from everything that isn’t working in your life, and find the tiny details that are. Most of these will be present in your life, and accessible, no matter what your circumstances. They are always here, just waiting to be appreciated.
The slant of sunlight through a window and how that makes rainbows dance on the carpet. A fragrant cup of Earl Grey tea first thing on a cold morning. Good coffee. The smell of rain on hot concrete. The rustle of wind in the tree tops. A smile. Birds supping nectar in the garden. Soft pillows. Clean sheets. Music that reminds you of wonderful memories, people and places. Favourite childhood books. Kindness. Ducks in the rain on our dam.
Each day I still choose to embrace the small pleasures and details of life. This simple act of living mindfully gives my existence a richness that was lacking for many years, and gives me resilience to cope better with life’s turbulent waters.
Thich Nhat Hanh explains the act of mindfulness very well.
20 thoughts on “Embracing the Small Things – an Antidote to Despair”
This technique is good for anxiety too!I’ve let it slip lately,thank’s for reminding me.xx
Yes, it is, and thanks for reminding all of us of that. Much love to you. Bless xx
Amazing how the simplest things can have the most profound effect. Thank you so much. I’ve let an issue become a monster, so now I’m going to let it go, bless it and go make a cup of Earl Grey tea. Unfortunately I only have the English, not French version. Oh well, C’est la vie! XXX
Queenies Teahouse at Nundah have the French Earl Grey in take-home packs. But be warned, good tea is addictive. xx
You are so right and I’ve been ignoring the small things for the longest. I should be more grateful! 🙂
🙂 Gratitude brings its own blessings.
thanks nicole- it is so true, the most powerful conduits for change are often the easiest to ignore! today i saw an entire rainbow over the whole bay of darwin while lightning cracked in the sky ~*~ a special reminder to of the wonder of being alive!!! xx
Such a wonderful sign to get a rainbow like that. Thinking of you and sending all good energies your way. Thanks for dropping by my blog xx
Beautiful and valuable blog Nicole! Your words contain great wisdom, and wisdom that you so plainly live in your every day.
I look forward to reading more of your blogs
I’m glad you found it useful, Phil. Thanks for your kind words, and I hope you come back to read more of my posts! N xx
Love your new blog Nicole. Sending you many warm blessings xo
Thank you, Kylie <3 Warm Blessings are some of my favourite things xx
Correction – *french earl grey* Ha! Love you xoxo
I know – tis a revelation, that French Earl Grey! Looking forward to sharing some with you soon! Love you too xoxo
great post, you’v pinpointed the things that helped me get through my own tough times.
I hope you are shining bright, and in a good place. Really enjoyed visiting your blog. Keep going! 🙂