You’re not alone…

Feeling small – by Artist Jaime Zatloukal Best


life can get you down

you can feel so small that you wonder if anyone knows you’re here

you might even wonder if anyone cares

Sad, wet and lonely puppy – Image from deliriously-angelic.blogspot

life’s burdens may weigh upon you

until you wonder how you’ll ever take another step

until you wonder if you’re cut out for this

until you doubt you’ll ever be the same

until you doubt you can ever know love, or joy or happiness again

A firefighter breaks down after the World Trade Centre collapse on September 11, 2001. Getty Images: Mario Tama

the pain of life can overwhelm you

but understand something…

you’re not alone

although sometimes it might feel like yours is the only voice

out there in the universe – close to home, or further away

there’s someone praying for you

there’s someone who cares

there’s someone holding that space of love and light and hope

there’s someone imbuing you with strength

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we are surrounded by unseen forces

angels and guides watch over us

love transcends all boundaries

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there are people we’ll never meet who wish us only good

there are hearts whose only thought

is that you be uplifted, that you know love, that you know peace

Candles lit as prayers for peace – image from

today perhaps it’s your turn to hurt

everything has its season

tomorrow might be your turn to hold that intention of love and safety for another

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we are, each of us, in this together

and together we find a way, for ourselves, for each other

today, know that I am here for you

holding that space

wishing you well

bless ♥ xx

Hi! I'm Nicole Cody. I am a writer, psychic, metaphysical teacher and organic farmer. I love to read, cook, walk on the beach, dance in the rain and grow things. Sometimes, to entertain my cows, I dance in my gumboots. Gumboot dancing is very under-rated.
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51 thoughts on “You’re not alone…

  1. I don’t know what to say.
    Just broke down reading this, but then I’ve been crying mostly for last few days now.
    If you knew me, maybe you wouldn’t have sent it, because I don’t deserve it.
    I don’t want to die, but I don’t feel deserving of life anymore.
    Am so crushed, have fcked up help from someone I really admire, respect and adore.
    I don’t think she’ll mind if I do this.
    I’m sorry, but thank you.

    1. Everyone makes mistakes. That’s called life. And everyone is deserving of it. Everyone!

      When life has been hard for me, so hard that I no longer know how to go on, I have found my salvation in helping others. Being an ear for them so they feel heard, watering flowers that are drooping in the heat, feeding birds in the park. The smallest kindness can be a lifeline for another. Everyone needs somebody, and somebody needs you!

      Sending you love and strength and light,
      Nicole xx

  2. Its like you have your finger, soul, heart on our pulse… and know exactly what we need, and your magical blog appears 🙂
    I too have felt the sting of loneliness this week, and I think the fog is now lifting. I had a profound thought this morning about why I always feel bad when I think bad things about myself, or I let someone make me angry… I am really only hurting myself… and I vow to start to be kinder to myself, more loving to myself, nurture myself … really rally for me! And when that thought came to me, an amazing light feeling followed, and the clouds definitely parted, and the sun came out.
    Thank you for always being there for us Nicole. Sending you a great big squeeze through the internets <3.

  3. This was so heart wrenching Nicole. Been feeling as though I’m in a deep blackout for weeks now, praying I could just talk to you because you’re the only one who would understand. Thank you for your post. I’m not sure if I ca find my way out yet but to know you’re holding a light. Thank you and blessings. <3 ❤

    1. Angels are well, angels… most have never had an earthly incarnation, although they work with us earthly souls. Guides are souls who may have had many incarnations, and are at a point in their own journey where they are no longer in physical form, and where they use their accumulated love, wisdom and experience to guide us – much like a big kid at school would help a junior kid who was just starting out. We all have angels and guides, even though most people aren’t aware of them. One of my guides, Rollo, told my sister and I long ago, when I first began to channel, that one day we would discover him in our family tree, and just recently we did! I hope that one day I will graduate to becoming a guide too…

      Oh, and please let’s not forget fairies, who are like angels except that they look after animals and plants and places, rather than people! ♥ xx

    2. Thank you for explaining. Why is it that we don’t know our guides are there? Can we get in touch with them if we want to? How many do we have? How do you speak to Rollo? Do you actually audibly hear him, or is it like a voice in your head? Lots of questions but it’s all new to me.

    3. Thanks for your explanation, I didn’t know that about fairies, I thought they looked after people too!

    1. Smiling is good 😀 xx
      Hugs are better! And hey, I may well be able to give you a proper real hug in March next year… fingers crossed for a New York visit about then. I’ll keep you posted.

    1. Thanks Joss. I love what you wrote – I remember being so ill and down that I doubted if I could ever be in a place to hold that positive space for someone else. It’s amazing how life can turn around. Much love to you, and blessings for all the marvellous work you do xoxo

    1. Oh Nic😂 I am so grateful and blessed to have you in my life… The timing is so right… For that post as usual. After everything you have taught me over the past ten years you would think I would know by now.. (slow to learn) Love to you… as my kids would say infinity and beyond… I just want you to know I wouldn’t be who I am today if it wasn’t for u… Xxxxx

    2. Brooke, you brought tears to my eyes! I have always had so much faith in you and your abilities, and it has been my pleasure to hold that space for you until you began to believe in it for yourself. ♥♥♥ xx

    3. Mary, I’m sending all my love and healing energies to you, and shall continue to do so. Know that there’s a little candle burning brightly here for you and shining love out into the world xx

  4. just reading this had made me smile, woke up very flat today after a tough week, much love and blessings to you dear nicole, you rock!!! :o)

    1. just did an hour vipassana meditation, felt so much better and spent last 10 minutes sending out love, peace and happiness to all beings! spirit is soooo cool!!! :o)

  5. Thank you Nicole. Thank you very much for your thoughts and love and prayers, for understanding and feeling other’s pain. This is a beautiful post that I needed today. Much love <3

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