“When you make a choice, you change the future.”
~ Deepak Chopra
July is a wonderful month for love. But what if you don’t have any in your life yet? Today I’d like to share a simple technique with you that can help you call in a soul mate or rejuvenate an existing relationship. (Yes, Leisa, I wrote this post for you!)
When it comes to manifestation the Universe works like a giant restaurant. It will only deliver you what you order. If you keep changing your mind it makes it hard for those hard-working kitchen angels to create the right ‘dish’ and deliver it speedily to you. Mixed messages are confusing for everyone, and will ultimately frustrate you in your attempts to find true love.
Most people spend more time choosing a car than they do choosing a life partner. How often do people fall into a relationship and then try and make it over into the one they want? We throw so much time and energy and money into trying to make square pegs fit into round holes. Often years of our lives are spent fighting battles we were never meant to win.
Discernment is the key to successful relationships, and discernment must ALWAYS start with awareness. Are you aware of what you want in a relationship? For many people, their clearest opinions and decisions start out being based around what they DON’T want. This is as good a place to start as any, as long as you are able to then turn each negative into a positive. “I don’t want a partner who will cheat on me” becomes, “I deserve a partner who will be faithful and loyal to our relationship.” Look to the good and unsuccessful relationships around you to guide you in making your love choices.
Take time to really think about the sort of partner and the type of relationship you are looking for. As you become clearer about what you want, begin by writing down the qualities and characteristics of this relationship. Create a ‘Love Shopping List’ and add to it as your awareness increases. Take your time with this. Do you rush into buying a house, or choosing an expensive once-in-a-lifetime holiday? Make your list comfortable, accurate and reflective of your innermost desires.
If you meet someone who clearly does not fit what you ordered, then wait! Maybe the Universal Chef is still cooking your meal. (And. of course, they may wonderfully surpass all of your expectations!)
I have used this method myself, and so have many of my students, friends and clients. This activity involves letting the Universe know exactly what you are wanting in a love relationship so that it can deliver this to you. In every single case that I am aware of it has been successful! I also know of people who have refreshed and revived existing relationships using the same technique.
When you have compiled your list of characteristics and qualities for your desired partner (as explained in the previous paragraphs above) review them until you are satisfied with your choices.
Take a clean white sheet of paper and write the following:
I, (Insert your name), now chose the following in my life partner:
Take a second piece of paper. On this piece write down all of the qualities and characteristics within YOU that you can offer a loving partner. Be honest and humble. Sign it with, I offer this and better to my life partner. This part is important because the Universe is governed by laws of energetic exchange – you don’t get anything for nothing!
Now fold both pieces of paper and seal them in an envelope. Hold the letter in your hands. In your mind’s eye, imagine these pieces of paper and surround them with a pink bubble of Light. Pour love energy into the pink bubble until your letter feels fully charged.
Put the envelope somewhere safe, and place your expectations to one side. If you ever think of the letter send more love and light to the pink bubble of energy surrounding it. Be open to what comes to you. The Universe always surprises us with more good than we could ever imagine for ourselves.
Wishing for you a month of kindness, love and heart healing,
Nicole ❤ xx