People are often unreasonable and self-centered. Forgive them anyway.Mother Teresa
If you are kind, people may accuse you of ulterior motives. Be kind anyway.
If you are honest, people may cheat you. Be honest anyway.
If you find happiness, people may be jealous. Be happy anyway.
The good you do today may be forgotten tomorrow. Do good anyway.
Give the world the best you have and it may never be enough. Give your best anyway.
For you see, in the end, it is between you and God. It was never between you and them anyway.
Christmas is such a crazy time – as much as it can be filled with fun and family and wonder, it can be equally a time of stress, loneliness, hardship, emotional buffeting and misery.
This year, with COVID bringing more losses and extra points of potential disagreement and division, there may be even more to navigate.
That makes it a perfect exercise for practicing kindness.
Over Christmas why not choose to see the day, or the season, as a meditation on kindness. You’ll find that not only will this have positive benefits for you and your own state of mind – the benefits of this practice will also flow out to the world around you.
How to Begin
Start by making a decision to be kind to yourself. Accept that you may have feelings of anxiety, sadness, frustration, anger or overwhelm, that you may have your buttons pushed by the people around you – especially family. Create the intention that just for these few hours you will treat yourself with kindness and compassion – that you will allow the unwanted feelings and emotions to wash over you like a momentary cloud passing through a sunny sky, rather than letting them take root and grow. Remind yourself often to come back into your heart, and live from a place of love.
How to Flow Kindness to Others
As you meet people through out the day, remember that they may be also experiencing emotions of stress, loneliness, sorrow, grief, worry, overwhelm, anxiety or despair. Live from your heart today – let kindness build a bridge of understanding between you…
In your mind, wish that person well. Flow good feelings towards them. Smile with kindness, and let your face be gentle.
Sometimes you’ll end up in social situations where people’s moods or behaviours may affect your own positive emotional state. That’s okay. Begin by sitting in awareness of how the troubles within the other person’s mind may make them act in ways that reveal their inner turmoil and isolation. Instead of being triggered into negative emotions or behaviours yourself, have compassion for their struggle or attitude. Let it wash over you like a cloud passing overhead on a sunny day. Disconnect from your need to engage in their drama. Offer words and acts of kindness, or quietly remove yourself from the situation and maintain your own emotional calm and balance. Always, bring yourself back into your heart. Always, accept your feelings but allow them to pass, and return to that place of love within you. Be gentle with yourself. Be kind to yourself.
Wherever you are right now, know that I am holding you in my thoughts, prayers and meditations. Energetically, there is a place for you at my table. I am flowing love and kindness and well-wishes to you, and sending love,
Gentle hugs, and space for you to feel your feelings and be supported with whatever you most need, Nicole xx
PS – if you’re game, I have a Christmas Kindness Challenge for you:
The Art of Bliss Bombing
This is a gorgeous activity, and one of my favourites. Sit at a window or outside, somewhere unobtrusive. (If you are up to it, do this at the family Christmas gathering!) When someone walks past, shoot a radiant shower of golden sparks from your heart to theirs and silently bless them with love. You can even send joy and love from your heart to trees, animals, plants, bus-loads of commuters and overhead planes. You might want to say to yourself, “I bless you with love. Know joy today.” If anyone catches your eye, just smile.
Feel your open heart begin to tingle with energy and joy. From that place of energetic connection look around you at the world and you will see that it IS brighter and more beautiful because of YOU.
Today you have acted as an Earth Angel. Your Lightwork has helped contribute to our energetic abundance.
Thank the Universe for this amazing experience we call life. Expect an outpouring of feel-good emotion. ♥ Don’t be at all surprised at how the Universe will mirror your love and energetic abundance back to you as you become more and more magnetic to the flow of good and grace.
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